Here we go again…the world of youth athletics. If we wonder why we have real problems in the world, we can once again look at youth athletics as window into why we can’t solve these problems. For example, if the parents of the kids I coach spent as much time focusing on other things than trying to get little Johnny to the major leagues by the time he is 16, we’d get somewhere. Let’s get real folks…do the homework, research, etc. and realize that Johnny is NOT going to be a MLB player at age 16. No matter how much you spend, how much you trash your coaches, complain at umpires, and continue to teach that it’s not about the team, but ONLY YOU Johnny. Let’s take the fun out of the game, let’s teach our kids that selfishness is the right approach, let’s make sure the coach hears how Johnny should be at first base every inning because he’s the only one that has any ‘real’ future, and that he should never, ever sit out. GET A GRIP and STEP BACK. This mentality must change for all of our sakes. Have we forgotten what we’re supposed to be teaching our kids?? What has happened to talking to your child everyday about what is going on? What they like, what they don’t like. Specific to sports, what has happened to encouraging your child to work harder and earn the position or playing time? Why is it that you are not teaching your child to talk directly to the coach and ask what he/she can do to earn more playing time? Why are you not teaching your child compassion for those that are making mistakes? Is your kid that perfect?? We’re to build our children up BUT not at the expense of tearing someone else down. At what point did this become acceptable to you? Are you really so indifferent and selfish that you don’t care if Johnny gets what he wants?? I guess the problem I have is that fully a third of the kids I deal with are being raised this way. I do what I can to change this thinking and I’m pretty good at that, but it only takes another parent ( and sometimes even another coach) to destroy the values that I work so hard to instill. Since I’m not a quitter this is going to be my fight. The kids I coach who buy into participating as a true teammate both on the team, their community, and in their life are the ones I want running for office, making decisions that shape the course of our future. We’ve seen what happens when we let those that don’t believe in this run our country…it’s why we are where we are. We, as parents/coaches, hold the key to a future that allows us to be teammates with other countries, other ideologies, etc. Take a step back and buy in to this thinking and let’s reap the rewards this way; together.
In health, NBPI
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